Your dad woke up this morning and hugged me, reminded me that no matter what we both go through in life we have each other.
Yes, sometimes your dad does my head in but he has his good qualities to.
We’ve been married 5 years now & never once in my our marriage have I felt that he hasn’t been a good dad to you girls.
This is the reason for my post.
I know you both will go through relationships that make you doubt yourself and your values but don’t be steered by that. I believe everyone will find there match even when it comes when you least expect it & when you do, open up to it, embrace it.
Relationships don’t work if you both don’t try.
Be mindful also girls, some guys aren’t worth the pain, listen to your gut! If it’s not right then don’t do it.
Your my world.
All my love.
So as you know mummy has new friends or usual friends coming over home. But this time mummy just wanted to share about the new guy that has appeared in the scene, no he is no way, shape or form anything more then just a friend, but mummy has been helping him because he has issues in his life that he needed female influence or a female perspective if you must.
No, mummy knows her limits and I am not steered by any rumours or anything of the sort, but he has relationship issues that he feels I could help him with.
Although I’m all up for helping, what troubles me is how much one can talk about amazing he is daily & not notice it. He not only compares himself to his brother, who is a successful tattooist but he constantly says things like… His brother wouldn’t of got there if it wasn’t for him etc..
Which leads me to the point, girls, don’t compare or feel you have to compete with each other to make yourself feel better then the other. Yes sibling rivalries are normal and all part of being siblings, but don’t feel that you can vent to someone and constantly bad mouth your sister.
You are both equally as talented as each other.
Regardless of what you both pursue in life, remember to love each other through it all. If one makes you angry, vent.. Let it out, just don’t constantly override the other.
This is not me dissing my new friend, this is me taking into account what I’ve experienced helping people & learning from them too.
You are family.
Nothing will ever come close to that.
Take care of each other please, mummy and daddy won’t be around forever.
Love you both to much. ❤️